how to be successful

    I was chatting with a friend the other day. He told me that his friend has been a millionaire so many times, and then poor again so many times — one day he would make his millions, and another day he would be broke and poor again. but he would never be in the middle (average income). he would either be at the bottom (very poor), or at the top (very rich).     The no. 1 biggest enemy to success is complacency   the reason why he would never be in the middle (between very poor and very rich), is
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winners quit all the time

  A football player was interviewed and asked, “firefighters work harder than football players, but why do football players like Ronaldo make millions kicking a ball, while firefighters and policeman who put their life at risk earn less than football players?”   the football player replied, “it’s not my fault that they chose to work in that industry”    *  *  *  *  *   Our life is like a blank canvas, and we decide what we want to paint on our canvas — we decide how we want to live our lives.   I’m not suggesting that you should
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what is an introverted alpha male?

    The New York Times recently published and article on Alpha male wolves..   “The main characteristic of an alpha male wolf,” the veteran wolf researcher Rick McIntyre told me as we were watching gray wolves, “is a quiet confidence, quiet self-assurance. You know what you need to do; you know what’s best for your pack. You lead by example. You’re very comfortable with that. You have a calming effect.” The point is, alpha males are not aggressive. They don’t need to be. “Think of an emotionally secure man, or a great champion. Whatever he needed to prove is
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overcoming (mental) obstacles

  I got invited by Webcamp KK to give a talk on Parkour in front of a 30 plus audience. Parkour is a physical activity where practitioners overcome physical obstacles to get from point A to point B as quickly as possible. It’s a tool that you can use to either REACH a destination, or to ESCAPE from an emergency. I wanted the audience to benefit and relate to my topic, so I decided to talk mostly about the psychology and philosophy of parkour on overcoming (mental) obstacles to achieve your goals in life.     Me, with the other speakers, and the Webcamp KK
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destroy your insecurities

  the things that you are insecure about are actually your greatest strength. embrace it. Accept it. and appreciate it.     its time that we start embracing our strenghts, as well as our weaknesses. Only when we start accepting who we are can we start moving forward with our life.    
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